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Is Britney Spears a Victim of a Narcissist? (And What is a Conservatorship?) - YouTube
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is britney spears a victim of a
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malignant narcissist
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and what in the heck is a
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conservatorship
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what's going on with britney spears i'm
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breaking it all down in this video
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so stay tuned
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[Music]
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hi i'm rebecca zhang and i'm an attorney
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i'm a best-selling author
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i am a narcissist negotiation expert
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and i teach you how to negotiate with
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narcissist whether it's in your divorce
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so let's talk about britney spears so uh
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it just came out yesterday that she
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was in court she appeared in court to
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try to end this conservatorship i can't
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even believe that we're still talking
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about this thing
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honestly 13 years later i mean
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yeah we all remember her her public
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meltdown but
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you know okay a lot of people have had
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meltdowns and hey
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she probably had some issues i mean
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maybe it was severe depression maybe she
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even does have
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you know bipolar who knows but
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she probably did need something at that
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time and so at that time
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her father was appointed to be her
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conservator and what does that mean
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that means she's basically her guardian
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he's taking care of her
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affairs he's taking care of her
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decisions around medical or financial
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things like that because at that time
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a court decided based on whatever
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evidence was presented to it that
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she was unable to handle it herself she
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she was a danger to herself and so
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if she was left to her own devices
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that she would maybe you know end up on
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the streets or something bad would
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happen to her so therefore
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somebody needed to take care of her just
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sort of like you know
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any child has to have a guardian because
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they're unable to take care of
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themselves you know five-year-old
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wouldn't be able to go out get a job
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have an apartment all those things
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and so sometimes that happens with
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adults i mean
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most of the time you see it happen if
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they end up with
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you know dementia or alzheimer's or
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something like that or maybe they're in
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a coma or they had a medical
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emergency uh so somebody needs to step
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in and try to help
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and so what happened with brittany 13
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years ago is that she
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had this meltdown so her father steps in
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now is he a malignant narcissist or is
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he a narcissist at all
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well do we think that he has her best
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interests
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at heart here when you listen to
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her testimony and apparently she spoke
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for 20 minutes
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in court and you know via telephone and
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if when you listen
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to the words that she's using all of you
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out there
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in youtube land those of you who watch
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me on a regular basis who
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know about narcissism who have felt it
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who know the drama trauma and chaos who
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know
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how they make you feel the
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energy vampires that they are
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how they sap your energy and they just
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drain the life out of you
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i've been there you've been there you
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know so listen to
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the words that came out of her mouth
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when she was talking in front of this
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judge yesterday she
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asked the judge to end her court-ordered
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conservatorship calling it abusive
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all right that's one of the words that
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she used was abusive
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she also said i'm traumatized i'm not
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happy
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i can't sleep she said it's doing me way
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more harm than good
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she said i just want my life back you
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know
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using the words like uh traumatized
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and and you know she felt like alone
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that her family did nothing she used
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words like
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that she felt dead inside that she feels
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like like they've they've stolen her
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life
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does this sound familiar to you
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i think all of us can understand
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that when someone altruistically
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has your best interests at heart who is
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really just doing
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something because they love you because
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they care about you
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you feel that right and
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this is not that right
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so what do you think do you think she's
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a victim of narcissistic abuse
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give him a yes or a no in the comments
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below
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i think he definitely thinks she is i
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mean this is not a situation like
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meghan markle or something and i have a
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whole video on is
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whether it's megan a narcissist and you
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can definitely check that out
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if you'd like but you know this is
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somebody
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you know that she has a 60 million
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dollar estate
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her dad loves the power she actually
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even said in her letter
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that her father loves having
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power over her because she's so powerful
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because she's a public
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image because she still has the power to
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be in residence in las vegas and make
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money and so
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she went on to say that she felt forced
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to go on tour
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in 2018 and perform in las vegas
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apparently
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the response from her fa her father
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you know the one who she's trying to get
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removed
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was that he loves his daughter very much
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so apparently they forced her to be on
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medication
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uh they actually even have an iud in her
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she's not
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allowed to have children she's not
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allowed to get
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married she's leading with the court
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to get rid of this uh she said
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it makes me feel like i'm dead like i
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don't matter
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what do you think about that you all
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have been there right you
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know what that feels like so i
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definitely think that she is
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a victim of narcissistic abuse
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and i want to know if you agree with me
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so put that in the comments below so
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let's talk about
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what happens now she petitioned the
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court she's asking the court to
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end her conservatorship so the court is
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going to have
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a couple of options they can go ahead
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and just end it and she can just
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become a free private citizen like the
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rest of us
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they will have to determine whether
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she's
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mentally able to handle it now now it's
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13 years later
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so my guess is that they will
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have some sort of medical
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evidence whether it's a medical doctor
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or a psychiatrist or psychologist
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or somebody coming in and saying yeah
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i've evaluated her
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and this is my the results of my
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evaluation
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and you know will say yeah she's
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she's good to go so they they can do
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that
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or they can say you know what we'll do
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this in stages
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and we will reduce the amount of control
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and we'll uh we'll just keep taking a
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look at it we'll maybe kind of step it
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down
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step by step they can also appoint a
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different conservator
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if they'd like i know there's been talk
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about having it be
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a corporate conservator like bessemer
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trust they talked about bessemer trust
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that's something else that they can do
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as well they can even
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have that interim corporate trustee
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or conservator be there they can even
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just maybe switch it to being like more
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of a trustee instead of a conservator
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so that they're sort of looking over the
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finances
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and having some kind of control over how
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she spends her money but not necessarily
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you know medical and iuds
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and whether or not she can get married
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and you know really
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like controlling every aspect of her
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life like that
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i think part of the reason why she's
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feeling so much stronger now
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is because of this whole free britney
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thing there was the
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the documentary that came out which
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apparently she didn't participate in
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at all but it's out there even while she
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was testifying
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uh yesterday there were people outside
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the courthouse
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in los angeles with you know signs
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and on her behalf really supporting her
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and i think that
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all of this groundswell of support is
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making her feel stronger making her feel
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less alone
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and that's why i so advocate for you to
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you know keep watching these videos join
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my free private facebook group
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narcissist negotiators
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you know get my negotiation worksheet at
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when my negotiation.com
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do all of these things because i want
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you
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to not feel alone because honestly
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the biggest thing that you can do for
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yourself when you go to negotiate with a
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narcissist
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is figure out a way to get rid of the
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fear
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because the non-some secret secret is
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that you are actually the stronger one
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and right now her dad is quaking in his
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boots because
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he's realizing that the jig is up
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but she's not that scared little person
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anymore who's gonna allow him to
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control everything and therefore you
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know he not only gets the
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money from that but the power and the
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prestige and controlling her and all
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that narcissistic supply
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that goes along with all of that and so
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i'm sure that he
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is quite nervous right now
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good and she's feeling stronger and
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stronger and stronger and the stronger
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that she feels
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the the more he's likely to just
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collapse and disappear and that's what
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happens
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you know you think that it's gonna be so
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bad for you
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but the truth of the matter is they're
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way more scared of you than you are of
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them
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so just remember that when you're
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dealing with a narcissist
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and you know hopefully britney will
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prevail it seems like she's
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ready and strong enough and stable
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enough to be able to handle everything
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on her own and even if she's not
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doesn't seem like that guy is the guy
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who should be in charge right
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so anyway thanks for watching remember
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that today is a great day to start
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negotiating your best life
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and i will see you in the next video
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