Multi-Millionaire Explains His Simple Steps to Self-Made Success - YouTube

Channel: Motivation2Study

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Actually being successful or like moving out of our mom's basement or whatever
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we put so much energy and time into the presentation
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of not looking like that situation
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instead of putting the energy and time into actually
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finding a solution to that issue. And so at that point
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it was like okay I've been putting a lot of time and effort
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trying to pretend things are good
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instead of actually trying to find solutions
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and then, that's when I started to
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do everything I needed to do to try to make money and just really...
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when I say embrace it's not necessarily like
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accept it for what it is it's almost like, "Okay, this is real
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I need to figure this out."
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Taking your surroundings you take in the people around you
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you see how they're making money
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and I just didn't like begging people for money.
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And so I respected the guys that were like figuring out hustles
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right? And so,
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for instance, there was an Amaco right down the street from me
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and so, I would go there and I would wash windshields and make money
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just try to save up enough money to just be in a motel for the night
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and I mean like the nastiest motel
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but for me it was just
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taking in my environment, seeing how other people hustled
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how I can do it better.
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Someone taught me how to play drums on buckets and things like that.
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And so, you know, I just tried to do any type of hustle
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that I could.
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I just started to learn
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how others were moving and kind of adapted throughout.
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For me, it's...
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it's opening your mind and opening yourself to people.
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I think a lot of people
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they are ignorant, they are.. Like rejecting change.
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Travel
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get out of your comfort zone,
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meet people from all different types of backgrounds.
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If you want to build a product or service or company
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that you want to build at scale
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and your friends are only the homies that you've been hanging out with since
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you know, middle school.
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Probably should meet some more people,
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get to know them, travel the world.
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You know, and even if you don't have the resources to travel
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the internet, learn about different cultures, learn about different people.
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You're at that computer you tell me what you want to do
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I tell you, this is how you search
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this is... this is how you find those resources.
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Now you got to actually go and learn.
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You have to be able to show people that there's other options
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and that's what spreading seeds is all about.
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Showing people that they can actually do something different.
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There's one thing being homeless
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but there's another thing having everything taken away from you.
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I was literally living out of my car
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and so, even though I was homeless
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I was still trying to uphold the appearance of
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everything being okay.
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When that moment happened it was like, Whoa
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this is rock bottom, because now
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all my clothes are gone,
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all the cool shoes, all the things that were material
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umm that you know, I tried to fake it until I figured things out were gone.
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Now and not only that
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all the the the elements, so...
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now rain and snow and all these things can get in the car.
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So it was like mildewy and smelly and so I smelled, right!
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And so for me in that moment I understood
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that wow this is... I thought things were bad
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but things are really really bad at this point.
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And now I can't pretend anymore, I just have to really embrace this
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I think a lot of times when we're going through things
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we kind of try to figure out
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how we're going to finesse our way into...
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people not knowing that things, things are wrong
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instead of just saying this is my life
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this is real now.
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You have like these brief moments of kind of peace
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until like the next accident happens, right?
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And that's just life in general.
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You know it's never going to be complete smooth sailing.
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One of the things that I鈥檝e noticed about a lot of people
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is that they let the hardships and the things that happen in their life
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failure stop them from
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like Aaliyah says, you know, "Dust yourself off and try again" right?
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And for me, I鈥檝e just never let
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anything or anybody prevent me from achieving what I want to achieve
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so I鈥檝e always had this relentless mentality.
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And if you say I can't do something
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if I fail, if I you know, mess up
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it just motivates me even more, I just become even more hungry
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and so I鈥檝e always just had this
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you know, relentless mentality.
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I don't take, you know, no for an answer,
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I don't take failure or accept failure at all
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and it's just always been kind of in my heart to not give up.
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It's the rose that grows from concrete, right?
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It's like no matter how terrible a situation is,
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no matter how bad it is
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there's still going to be a rose that grows from that concrete.
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And I feel like I was that, right?
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No matter what my situation was I was built for this.
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I was not going to let myself fail
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right! and I had that mentality
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and I understand that
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now, that I grew from that concrete I鈥檓 starting to plant my seeds
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and there's more roses growing.
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What's so special about the internet now is
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really anything you want to do you can learn.
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Like if you want to learn how to code, if you want to be a developer,
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you want to build software, you want to build apps
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you can literally go on YouTube and learn how to code.
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And so, what I would tell that person is
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what do you want to do?
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Tell me anything, what do you want to do?
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Right?
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Now, there's resources and there's things online
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that can help you build yourself into whatever that is.
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So I think that- that kid at the end of the day
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he has to have that kind of just,
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"I got to make this happen"
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right? Here's the thing - no one can teach you that.
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At the end of the day, man, you really got to want it.
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You got to really want it.
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And I think the problem is is now with social media, before..
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When I was growing up
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I didn't see all these examples of people having cool cars
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or doing cool stuff all the time like, right?
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And now with social media I don't care if you're in like
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you know,
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in the middle of nowhere you can log on to Instagram
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and see just this whole world of experiences and things.
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The problem is, it's like,
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"Oh well, these people have it so I should be able to have it."
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and it's just like, man you don't see the work that goes behind this.
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Man, I started my first marketing job at 14.
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I鈥檓 10 years into entrepreneurship.
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It wasn't until the past few years
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where I started really getting recognition for it, right?
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And so people don't see all that it takes
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to even get to that point and that's the problem.
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And so, they think it's supposed to be this- this overnight thing
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Oh, I started LLC give me money.
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No, that's not how it works.
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This is a marathon, this is not a sprint
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right? You never know when that moment is going to happen in your life
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where you find that passion or you figure it out.
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The fun part is just trying a bunch of stuff
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like when you get to a point where you can just try a bunch of stuff
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it's like, Hey, sit down make a list
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I鈥檓 interested in all these different things, right?
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Okay, I鈥檓 interested in these top five things.
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Now, how can I do something that
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not only am I passionate about with one of these top five things
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but also make at least enough money to just get by.
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A lot of times the thing that's stopping us
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from being the person that we truly want to be is ourselves.
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It's usually ourselves.
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And I think being able to identify
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mental health, depression, anxiety, all these things that we're dealing with
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and say that we want to make a change
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and we humble ourselves to want to make that change
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is one of the biggest barriers that one can break through.
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I鈥檓 going to launch a much more successful business when I do launch it
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and it's because I took the time to learn
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and I just think that people are in such a rush
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to have something
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especially money, money is like, Oh, I got to get more money.
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But it's like, if you launch something that's piss poor.
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Even at a point where I had accomplished so many things
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I almost did it, right?
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We're not perfect.
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I鈥檓 not perfect.
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You know, I still mess up all the time, man.
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Earlier today, like I was- came here at the wrong time, right?
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So we- we mess up constantly
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but it's- it's identifying that and saying, wait let me take a step back
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and let me do this the right way.
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I am inspired by helping people.
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If I can make money too damn, that's cool too, right?
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But the thing that really gets me out of bed right now is
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my ability to help people.
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I don't need any more money, I don't need any more material things
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you know as well as I know that gets old, right?
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And you know it feels good temporarily
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but it doesn't really hold any weight or substance.
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And so, the thing that
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I feel like our legacy is
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how do we affect as many people as possible
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in the most genuine and impactful way, right?
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And for me THAT is what drives me today.