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Who Should Be the Head of the Household, Man or Woman? | Tell My Story Blind Date - YouTube
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you think like women should be cooking
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and stuff like that type of traditional
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cook for you every day if I'm saying
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that's not the problem
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since I've been here I've just been kind
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of like swiping if I get a pick-up line
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I just delete the message I'm like a bi
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I like conversation starters and I go
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what book would you read if you were on
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a desert island and if you get like a
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hey sexy I'm like a you didn't even read
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my bio no I believe in lust at first
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sight that's what I believe in I don't
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think you can love somebody just by
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looking at them and unless you're dead
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yeah I'm not even put adjectives on that
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your name is Brian and this is your
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story you are 23 years old for work
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you're a photographer you grew up in
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Detroit
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you have three siblings and you have two
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older and one younger
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it's create twenty four I would say that
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my entrepreneurs like graphic design I
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have a clothing line as well as a
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development label I grew up in New
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Orleans
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I am the how much wind so it's like
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we're the youngest out of like five so
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I'm just a little bit older than him
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about two minutes it comes and your name
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is Renee and this is your story
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you're 22 I will say you're like a
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barista and you know slash career I
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think you grew up in New York I would
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say you have like three siblings and
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you're probably those my name is Whitley
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I mean 24 I'm a grad student works I
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grew up in Delaware but I feel like New
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York was a compliment
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oh thanks I have four siblings and I'm
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the middle child which was five of us so
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what is you major for medical genetics
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elaborate yeah so it's like the study of
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like your jeans and like how your jeans
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get kind of passed down but you have a
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clothing line yes this is the clothing
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line it's a label that's a dope if I
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could if I was creative outlet oh so you
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don't create yeah I have no creative
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bone in my body before I moved
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New Orleans I was in like a really
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long-term relationship and that was
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three years so I've just been swiping I
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don't know anybody here so let's just
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kind of like see what's out there I have
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not been in a long-term relationship
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before I would say the longest period of
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time had been roughly six months there's
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many times where I've wondered well well
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I actually have a find a soulmate I can
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honestly I don't know how soulmates work
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because I I don't think I've encountered
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one so I'd rather you know just leave it
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to the wind like your dream dinner guess
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would be trey songz I would say it is
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important for your partner to be close
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to family tradition you know gender
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roles are I would say they are require
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first day before you're probably are
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early bird
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because if like you having a career your
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last meal would probably like curry
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chicken I don't know why I said courage
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okay so my dream dinner guests would be
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Michelle Obama
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okay it is important for my partner to
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be closer to my family traditional
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gender roles aren't required for a
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stable home I am an early bird because
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they get the worm that's all I've got my
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last meal would be shrimp Alfredo with
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like cashew sauce so like not dairy this
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sound just like it's actually really
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good mmm so your dream dinner guests
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would be jay-z and I'll it just rolled
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off my clothes it is important for a
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year partner to be close with your
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family traditional gender roles are not
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required for a stable home for you
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you're a night owl because creativity
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flows at night your last minute would be
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a medium-rare filet you know I was the
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Warren Buffett will be my dream done I
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guess tell me what you don't tell it in
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and everything trying to get that I
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would say initially is it a parable if
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you know they're close to your family
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not only because you they have to get
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the norm traditional gender roles I
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would say like I say it is but that's
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only because it's like I felt as though
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long a man should you know definitely
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provide for the household a mom should
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definitely show you know a certain type
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of love to the child if I'm saying it as
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far as upbringing you think like women
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should be cooking and so that type of
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traditional cooking every day is insane
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that's not the problem
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would you be upset if like the woman was
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the provider um I wouldn't be upset
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I appreciate food that's very
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goal-driven and moving so you know if
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you are making more money doing what you
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do and you're happy doing it evens and
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you you know we can be happy together
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and you are correct I'm a night owl my
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last meal would be lasagna that's Oh God
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esta it's a lot of cheese oh man all
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right
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I think the only deal-breaker I have is
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how you view me as a woman so if you
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think like I'm gonna come home after 12
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hours and whatever and cook no I'm sorry
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I'm definitely not the stereotypical I'm
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gonna cook for you like or I'm gonna do
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laundry or washer no absolutely not it's
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definitely important to get my situation
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together before I give myself to
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somebody only for the simple fact that I
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you know I grew up with I guess a man
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taking care of the household so I was
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instilled into me that's why I'm making
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sure I'm had my busines for I get a
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family my mom was like a teacher and
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then she became a pastor and then my dad
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was the breadwinner you know she would
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cook all the time that would be a big
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deal breaker give you view me as like a
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woman from the 60s or something I'm just
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like sorry
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religion is needed for you for a strong
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moral compass if money didn't matter you
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would spend your life designing clothes
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one thing you love about yourself is
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your ability to create your
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deal-breakers in a relationship are not
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believing in your dreams I didn't put
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that down but I definitely liked that
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one
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religion I will see it's hot only
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because I just have a good morals I was
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raised by my grandma she did you know
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it's the religion but I was like did
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y'all go to church and every Sunday
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every other Sunday so you wouldn't
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consider yourself like religious now I
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would say more spiritual
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I just know like there is a higher being
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you know it's not like uh you know a
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religion base is definitely spiritual
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money didn't matter I would definitely
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be used to be helping a lot of people
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with his you know mentally physically if
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I'm saying you know whatever could help
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somebody you know they do one thing I
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love with myself my human alright I can
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joke around all day and a deal-breaker
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is not
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indicate like I feel like anything could
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be communicated you think you're a good
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communicator oh definitely I'm very
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straightforward when it comes to I guess
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speaking on things only for this I don't
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like people beating around the bush yeah
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like just be there yeah yeah whether
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we're gonna be together not a people
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communicate with bothering us or
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anything like that always so not mind
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and it should be the problem in their
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relationship at all I will say religion
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isn't needed for a strong moral compass
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if money didn't matter I would say you'd
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be exploring everywhere one thing you
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love about yourself is determination
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like you drive you have to be very
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determined in order to get past college
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I just know that for a fact that's and a
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deal-breaker in a relationship I feel
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like it's you know the person not being
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honest with you
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religion is not needed for a strong
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moral compass I was pretty much the same
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thing like grew up living like my mom's
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a pastor and all but then I kind of so
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you really oh yeah they be in past there
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but uh if money didn't matter to me I
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would spend my life lobbying for the
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homeless one thing I love about myself
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is my compassion for others and my
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deal-breaker in a relationship is not
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treating me equally or believing women
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shouldn't have equal rights
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when I first saw you I said I would yes
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that was that was a different that's why
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me weren't from New Orleans after
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speaking to you I said I would um you're
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a pretty interesting person I feel like
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I definitely would like to get to know
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you better
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I feel like that sums it up so when I
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first saw you I said I would yeah you
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look like initially I was like okay like
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nice style and then after meeting you I
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also said I would yeah I was a little
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nervous though when you said something
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about traditional like gender roles I
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was like oh that's not me but it just
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means the thing you said something about
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communication and I was like okay so you
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seem like a blunt person and so like you
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wouldn't be upset if I was just very
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direct and honest people come from doing
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a background exactly and it's just like
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you have to just appreciate someone for
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like where they've come from and like
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their experiences in life when people
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meet people if you have to learn to
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accept that person or to even love them
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change is not initially I was like I
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hope nothing gets taken out of context
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but like if it does that's even better
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for conversation like when you said
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Renee I was like Renee I don't know with
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what's a Renee it's my middle name oh
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really I don't know why I can't don't
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mind though so I was kind of that way
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anyway I'm very like hey let's just talk
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about all this you know awkward but deep
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you know stuff so sometimes opposites
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attract and at the same time you know if
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you leave it open for somebody the
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chinos would be different though really
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leave it open for y'all to accept each
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other
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yes it was definitely nice to meet you
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thank you
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right I was like I've never met anybody
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down here that shaking thanks for
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watching tell my story and can you want
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to see whatever this was I guess a date
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subscribe to soul pancake
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