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Divorced Couple Looks At Their Wedding Photos - YouTube
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- It's a good reminder that things...
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Things were good, and will be again.
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They are good.
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(inspiring music)
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- I'm Sara Piergiuseppe, and
today I'm gonna be looking at
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my wedding pictures with my ex-husband.
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- This should be interesting.
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- We met through friends.
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Well, technically, we met in
a bar, but we knew people,
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so it feels a little less sleazy.
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- She had a red top on.
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I was smitten from go,
and she was playing it
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to cool for school.
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- It was not a match, at first.
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I really wasn't interested,
but he grew on me,
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and he asked me out,
probably like a month later.
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- Our first date was on August the 9th.
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- The rest is history, and now we're here.
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- Within, I'd say, about a year of dating,
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we moved in together.
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- And then we got engaged, it
was a year and a half later.
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- New Year's Eve, at a
Black Crowes concert,
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after one too many drinks, I said to her,
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"I have no ring, I have no money--"
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- "'But I love you,
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and I want to spend the
rest of my life with you.
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Will you marry me?'"
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- She said, "Yes."
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And, we woke up the next morning,
she looked at me and said,
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"You still wanna do this?"
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I was like, "Yeah."
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- And my mom got sick, she
got diagnosed with cancer,
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and so we knew that she
wasn't gonna make it.
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So we actually did a Justice
of the Peace ceremony
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in December, but the wedding-wedding--
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I just wanted a big party.
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- It was wonderful, it was awesome.
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- So after we got
married, he switched jobs.
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- Now we're working all the time,
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we don't really see much of each other.
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I'm getting up at 4:30 in
the morning and I'm out.
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- I think the things that
affected the marriage is,
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just time away from each other between
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his work and me doing theater.
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- I was just getting
more and more frustrated.
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Not with her.
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More with just, I really
don't like the way
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my life is going at this point.
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The marriage was good.
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It was just, we got to a point we weren't
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a married couple anymore,
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we we're just two people
living in the same house,
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and it needed to end.
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That was the end of the chapter.
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- He actually was the
one that brought it up.
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He was like, "I think we should separate."
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- It was really tough, it was not easy.
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We basically went from
roommates who get along,
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to roommates who don't get along,
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who don't even want to be in
the same room with each other.
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- Obviously, it hurt.
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But looking back, it was the
right move for both of us.
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- I moved to New Orleans for six months.
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I was not in a good
place, drank way too much.
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She was one of the people I turned to.
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- I wanted to find a way
for us to be friends.
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I don't have a lot of people,
and I don't want to lose this.
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So I wanted to figure out
a way to remain friends.
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- Just kinda looking forward
to seeing these pictures
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of people we haven't
seen in such a long time.
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- I think it might just kind of
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give a little bit of closure.
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- I'm a little bit nervous.
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- [Austin] How are ya?
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- Yeah, super fun standing
outside of the door.
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- Waiting for people.
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- Yeah, I'm so patient.
- Yes you are.
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- You know how patient I am.
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I like this.
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- Thanks.
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I think, Buffalo Exchange?
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Cool.
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- Cool.
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(laughing)
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So what lovely things
did you say about me?
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- You're a terrible person.
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I was glad to be out of this.
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I don't know why I'm doing this--
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- Well, I'm super happy to be here.
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- I'm doing this for the money.
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- I'm gonna go.
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- Hopefully this isn't
one of those things that,
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in concept--
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(laughing)
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- It sounded like a good idea
but now after looking at it,
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we're like--
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- No, I think it'll be fine.
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It'll be fine.
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Let's look at pictures.
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- You wanna look at these?
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- Should we do it?
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- Alright.
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- I really seriously haven't
looked at these in forever.
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Aw look, there's your hair.
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- There's my hair, yeah.
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- What the fuck?
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(laughing)
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(soothing music)
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(laughing)
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Honestly, there are a
lot of people here too,
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that we don't--
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- We don't see anymore or hear--
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- Don't--
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Yeah.
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- - Or not hear anymore.
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You know, it's a good
reminder that things...
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Things were good, and will be again.
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They are good.
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I think that there's a
stigma attached to divorce.
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It's always gotta be bad,
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and it doesn't always have to be bad.
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You kind of can choose
depending on the scenario.
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Just have as much respect for yourself,
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and for the other person,
as humanly possible.
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Thank you for being here, and being you,
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and not just walking away.
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- Same.
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Thanks for sticking it out with me,
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and wanting to still be my friend,
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and making sure I was
okay when I got back.
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- Always.
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- Cause I wasn't.
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- I know.
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- Could've easily gone
the other way, and--
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- Okay, I'm gonna hug you.-
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- Okay.
- Okay.
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(soothing music)
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