WHAT IS LESBIAN/GIRL-ON-GIRL SEX? | The Sex Talk with Mou and Jenoa - YouTube

I'm Mou, this is the Sex Talk

We had a question. Actually. Was it from one of your clients? I?

Don't know. Yeah like um

I it was a question from an email that I got like they not understanding what is girl-on-girl sex

What is lesbian sex?

Well here I'm gonna start with a little history lesson were in in the history of sex

Sex was

Considered penis in the vagina and to stray people everything else was fooling around

Right, right and it still lives like that. I'm saying past tense like because I'm

Trying to be all lesbian centric so you could not have sex without a penis

By that definition, right? So if you had straight people talk about like, oh we were on our second date. Did you have sex?

No, we just pulled around what happened? No, he went down on me, right? Oh, well considered fooling or I'm like did you cum?

Yeah, but it wasn't sex. It's not considered text. Oh, I can't write on that

Yeah, but that's really common all these straight people that are watching this. You know, I'm like and

so yeah, so actually

Expanding the concept of the word sex to include more than just intercourse, right?

This is this is one mere act of sex like it's like on the scale of ABCD efg to Z

it's like it's just like it's just guys it's just it's why why well,

Or it might be I agree with you

but you know, I'm just saying it's like of all of the things that you can do sexually penis and vagina is

at least from a woman's perspective, I mean

70% of women can't come that way. I mean, I'm not saying it doesn't feel good

And there's a clearly reason why people do it because it feels good

Yeah, but it might not be the be-all end-all. So it's okay to redefine this term as sex because it's not really

Representative of what people are doing in bed 100% of the time there's so many other things to do

So I like I like Ted. I like sex being like an alphabet and

Intercourse

Penal the intercourse is just one letter of the alphabet. Mm-hmm. So what are all the other letters of the alphabet?

Well, that's where lesbian sex comes in and it's not it's not like we never have peni

it's a phallus phallus I

Fallacies. Yeah, clearly, we have strap-ons and stuff like that and that is sex

But that's not the only thing and so I can see where if someone was from a straight community and wonderful

What is lesbian sex like what do they do?

I mean I still get these questions which seems strange in this day and age where there's so much information

And pouring out of the block. So let's get down to it. What do two women do together

I have a really short answer for that. Whatever feels good

Yeah

so if you're straight and you've done things with like with a dude that felt good that maybe were

Not completely just penis in the vagina

Lesbians are doing a lot of that. You know, we have hands we can do stuff with those we have mouths

We have Lu we have toys

um, whatever gifts each other off is what we're doing and it's all considered sex as far as I'm concerned if someone if

Someone is trying to make someone come it's sex as far as I'm concerned

you don't even have to come like maybe it didn't happen for whatever reason right if it's if the point is I want to make

You feel really good. Hopefully, right you're gonna come that's sex

Does the vagina have to be penetrated in order for there to be sex like either by otaku by a finger? I?

Don't think so either some people don't like it. I don't think so either. I definitely think that sex

can be

Fooling around even with clothes on you know, like what is it like you're driving, right? Yeah

I want to come like maybe that's hot. Maybe I would call that fooling around if we were like out of parties

I'm wearing we never got a close-up. Yeah, but it's all up to you or you can just call it dry humping

You don't want to call it sex, right? No sounds sexy

I'm part of their eyes, and it's not dry

But we're dry wouldn't be coming just know just so you know, not dry coming dry humping

So whatever feels good to whoever's involved that's right now there's finger penetration with MAO stimulation

generally, there's a lot having to do with the clinic because women in general that's like the center of

On the clay you can use your finger right in the clip use your thigh big lose an object

Yes, like a dildo or anything rindy tribalism. You can grind against each other in certain places

I'm gonna rhythm going you have some nice like lubrication you can I mean

We have a really versatile very pretty versatile you can insert

hands dildos strap-on

Tongues. Yeah

There's lots of ways to do that. Kissing is really hot. I think is like

Huge foreplay. Mm-hmm

I mean I think women we love foreplay and so all of the ways that we

Approach each other in a very sexy soft manner to start with to get kind of your juices flowing

I think that's really important. Yeah, and remember women have um

Anuses - oh right really important. Yeah, there's so many nerve endings in your anus and

I'm gonna stick one in the butt

Too in this one in the pinky. One two in the pink two in the stink or whatever

Yeah, so, you know

And there's a mouth finger

Combo, I feel he talked about this once before. But anyway, there's no problem. No point good something to try out. Absolutely

There's lots of so many things that you can do

Anal play use a lot of Lube though is something to think about? Yeah, we have episodes on anal place to look those up

Yeah, yeah

but yeah, we're a big fan of

legs acts

You really met

Oh my god

Wait sex of all kinds and we really don't think that sex even has to revolve or involve

Penis doesn't even have to involve intercourse of any sort nor doesn't even have to involve orgasm

So we really need to I feel like redefine sex. There's too much emphasis on

Intercourse and orgasm in our in our culture. Oh, so like detail like we're so like end oriental orient

Get that in there

Orgasm and that's what sex is and that's five minutes that is going to make your sex life way disappointed. Yeah

Boring, so leave a lot of room for just new feelings

things like maybe you've never really explored nipple play before it's and everybody's got to

My dog has eleven. But anyway

If you're probably probably not gonna come for your nipples, but you might but like take some time

I find the type of stimulation to be almost

orgasm like a lot of women do but the point is you might not know that until you try it, right and

There's other areas of the body, too

You know

I hate to sound like a broken record and maybe I have never talked about this but like inner thighs back in the neck

use your tongue get creative like and turn her on in so many different ways like

Light massage like super light touch. There's a huge turn-on. So yeah get creative

Communicate ask your partner. What feels good. Does this feel good? Mmm-hmm. No, I want it harder. Does this feel good? No

I should I want it softer. Yeah, talk to each other pretend you're massage therapists. Like ask its my pressure

Is this the kind of pressure you like? Like what what do you like and get them to tell you because that's yeah

And if they're screaming and they're like holding onto the pillow or when you're doing it, right derman probably doing it though, right?

because sometimes that like super light touch you can bring them to a point where they so are ready and

then the hard fucking

Beat down sex is happening

and that's what they wanted to I mean not everything is gonna be soft and pretty and nice like that's sort of a fallacy about

Lesbians exes. Yeah, we are

Yeah, Sarah McLachlan sexting it out there and it is like all you know

You ask guys like what is it that you like about lesbian sex girls like too soft women getting together

It's not always like that. It is a good thing to try

then you might end up fucking the shit out of her with her head off the bed like

with your fist in her vagina like fisting as a thing, so

Um start soft get rougher see how rough she likes it. I mean all of it is exploration

Yes, but lots of things that you can do girl-on-girl

Yeah without a penis

So many things yeah, so we are pro lesbian sex here at the sex talk and we think you should go out and try it

if you have any questions at all about lesbian sex

Go try it go try it penis free intercourse free penises can be involved, but maybe no intercourse

You know try it. Yes, get your boyfriend to do some lesbian sex with these absolutely just once really possible sex side