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Should You QUIT Your Job? - The Most Life Changing Speech Ever (ft. Garyvee, Joe Rogan) - YouTube
Channel: The Outcome
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most men live lives of quiet desperation
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it's one of my favorite quotes ever
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because it's true
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you're just in this world where you just
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can't wait to just run away but I think
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one of the reasons why these people have
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this deep-seated anger and resentment is
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there's a bunch of people out there that
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have these lives that are deeply
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unsatisfying because I think there are
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so many people that are working all day
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long doing something that is deeply
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unsatisfying and an almost painful yeah
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yeah it's all killing soul-killing
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they're stuck in traffic all day and
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then they're stuck in a cubicle after
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that they they relish the time to take a
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[聽__聽] in the bathroom and look at their
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phone I mean they literally do though
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that's a highlight of someone's day they
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get in traffic on the way home they get
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home after that they're watching
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television I think if people have a
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regular day job if you could just find
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some one thing that you do as a passion
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project and just keep building on it
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just keep at keep watering it keep
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adding fertilizer keep giving it
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attention keep giving it focus and you
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can escape you can escape and you can be
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self-serving you could be okay you're
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gonna be okay look man
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for making furniture feels good if you
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can do that you could you could cut
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those corners perfectly and sand
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everything down nice and stain it and
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then it's done you get dissatisfied and
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you sell it to someone and that pays
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your bills that is infinitely more
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satisfying than being stuck in some
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cubicle working for someone that you
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don't want to work for having to have
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these stupid office meetings talking to
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people and Human Resources sitting down
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with your supervisor where they evaluate
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your job performance and you know you're
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not really you know you really need to
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be enthusiastic about this company this
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company is your future this kind of Rd
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like kill me now you know there's a lot
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of people out there that would way
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rather do something else and I hope they
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understand that they can and people that
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are trapped in bad situations one of the
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problems is you feel like this is your
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future and you can't get out of that
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there's no hope there's no light at the
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end of the tunnel there's no rainbow and
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if you feel like that that alone can be
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incredibly defining and limiting
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but if you can look at if you look at
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yourself objectively and say okay I'm in
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credit card debt I'm working in a job I
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I don't like what I'm doing but I have
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some ideas I need to feed those ideas
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and I need to feed them and water them
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and I need to set aside a certain amount
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of time every day to just try to make
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those things happen you can do that
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everyone has a different personality
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they have different different interests
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different different things that they
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would be really satisfied pursuing
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that's not encouraged the what's
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encourages go find a job
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what's encouraged is don't find
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someplace that you can shove yourself
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into go find a square hole so you can
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stick you a round peg and just been
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jamming in there and shave down the top
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and the bottom so you slide in with all
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this extra space on the sides and finish
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for the rest of your life because you
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need a job because you're in debt
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because you have credit cards because
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you have student loans because that's
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what everybody does and so you do it too
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that's what's wrong you have an
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apartment you have to pay for you have a
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car you least you have a wife that you
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have to feed you have a child do you
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have to raise you have to you have your
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mortgage you have your this you have
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your that and that's where it all comes
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from well the opportunity takes place
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usually when you're young and you don't
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have any responsibilities though that's
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when you have your options well your
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options are severely limited the more
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you gather responsibilities like if I
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had as a 51 year old father of three
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married man pays taxes as a house and a
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mortgage and a business and all that
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jazz if I had to quit everything now and
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struggle the way I struggled as a
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stand-up comedian it would never work
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but the only way I could be this person
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now is if I took that chance when I was
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21 when I was dead broke and had my cars
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repossessed and all that stuff that's
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the only way you you ever get where you
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wanna go you have to you have to take a
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path it's dangerous and most people want
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to take the safe path the safe path
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leaves you
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in quiet desperation almost every time
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its hell but can people just make that
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change I mean you have to plan it out
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the way you can change is you have to
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put aside enough money to give yourself
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a window and then you have to have a
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plan and you have to spend all your
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waking hours outside of whatever job you
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do planning your escape and you have to
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come to the realization very clearly
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that you've dumped and you got yourself
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stuck so whatever you're doing you have
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to do it like your life depends on it
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if you're gonna try to be an author and
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you're working eight hours a day plus
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commuting plus family responsibilities
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or whatever else you have whatever time
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that you have you have to attack like
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you're trying to save the world you're
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trying to save your life you don't want
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to drown that one-and-a-half hours a day
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that you have to write goddamn you
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better be caffeinated and motivated you
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got to go you got to get after it and
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you got to have discipline that's most
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people don't have those things most
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people don't understand what it's like
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to really go for something and to know
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that the consequences of not doing that
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are horrific
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there are so many people that would be
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so much happier making $27,000 less a
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year and the only thing they have to do
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is sell their current home where they
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only use eighteen percent of the home
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anyway and baha'i a home that has two
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less bedrooms so they don't have to have
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the job that is paying to maintain the
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lifestyle that they've propped up for
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themselves and their life will be like
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disproportionately better because
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there's a lot more people living
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like as many entrepreneurs as they are
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that should be the employees there's way
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more people that basically build a life
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around how much they're earning get to a
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place where they hate what they're doing
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to earn have the opportunity to still do
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something that earns twenty thousand
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less that they love but a golden
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handcuffed by worrying about what car
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they drive or where their house is
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because they actually care about other
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people's opinions and nobody has the
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gear to take a step backwards the
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inability to take a step back to take
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step four steps forward and happiness
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based on other people's opinions of
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watching you take a step back blows my
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[聽__聽] face off when do you quit your
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job and go in when you can afford it
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happiness is so unbelievably addictive
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and it's makes me so sad that so many of
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you created golden handcuffs for
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yourself that aren't a letting you leave
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your job because you need to make a
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hundred thirty thousand a year now
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because you wanted seven hundred more
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square feet in your apartment where you
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wanted a BMW instead of a Toyota and so
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you're not happy because you wanted two
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or three things that mean absolutely
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nothing I promise you when you've tasted
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both when you both when you meet people
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that have tasted both I make a hundred
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eighty thousand a year and I am stuff
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but I'm not happy and then I went making
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ninety four thousand a year but I'm
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doing what I love and I'm super happy
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and I have a little less stuff it's not
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even close to a debate so I implore all
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of you to really dig deep inside of
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yourselves and try to figure out why you
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need that stuff I'm gonna save you time
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you're trying to close an insecurity gap
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let me give you another huge hint
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everybody else sucks too
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so do you
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if you're 21 and you have no expenses
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and you're living at home you'd have to
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go high-risk as soon as you see any
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blood in the water you go in on 21 and
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I'm at home and I have no expenses and
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and I'm making 47 thousand euros pounds
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dollars doing something I don't love but
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I want to be a film person and the first
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person pays me $1,500 or $1.00 forever
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and it works and it went well and she
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the boss of this candy store says I'm
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gonna tell my friends about you I may
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jump right away I don't have any
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concerns if I'm 42 years old and I have
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three kids and a mortgage and I'm
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$100,000 in debt because I went to
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college in America and didn't get me a
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good job and I'm gonna countin and I
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make 137 thousand a year which basically
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pays for my overhead roughly because I
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bought a house bigger than I needed
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about a car bigger than I needed this
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cliche American and somebody pays me
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$1500 and they're like I'm gonna tell my
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friends I'm gonna give up Netflix and my
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video games and my weekends to
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eventually get that to 60 or 70 or 80 or
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90 thousand a year before I say okay now
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I'm at 90 137 if I actually went all-in
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I can close the gap on that 57,000 now
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I'm gonna make the jump because I've
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three kids a mortgage and debt
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yesterday Aaron is 25 and single and
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living at home tomorrow he meets Sheila
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falls in love and you know a million
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things could happen Sheila could be
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making a million dollars a year
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different life Sheila could be making no
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money but he loves her so much and she
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wants to buy handbags everyday and now
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he has a bigger you know financial
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problems Sheila wants to be his partner
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she like he wants to buy handbags it's
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not cliche it's like but jump when you
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can afford to drown
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you jump when you can afford to drown
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what I mean by that is when you jump
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into the pool you have to know that
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you've never swam before and you might
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drown and you have to be able to do that
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when you can and a 21 living at home you
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can yeah cuz you can go back and get a
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job you have no overhead right but at 43
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with three kids you might not want to
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yeah and by the way or you might you
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might have such a supportive spouse
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Sheila Aaron's the stay home dad
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Sheila's making the 147 Sheila talks to
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Aaron says Aaron I'm gonna die if I
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don't jump I'm 43 and if I don't jump
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now I'm gonna be 62 and regret it my
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whole life so I'm gonna jump and if I
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fail and the economy collapses I can't
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get a job we may have to sell this home
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we may have to move in with our parents
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in Florida but I have to do that and
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take the loss in front of everybody's
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eyes that were losers and we because I
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know myself and I know if I don't jump
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now I'm gonna be miserable for 40 years
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that I was an accountant for my whole
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life the reason I want everybody to live
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the way I do we just do not care what
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other people think once you go there
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you're willing to jump you're willing to
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drown you're willing to move in with
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your 80 year old parents and look like
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losers with your kids because you just
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don't care the reason people are letting
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themselves get happy is because they
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value other people's opinions more than
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they valued their happiness
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they literally value their parents their
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siblings their best friends and
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society's opinion more than their own
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happiness they value like you live your
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life that you value other people's
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opinions more than being happy
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