Will Sending Your Ex Gifts or Love Letters Help Win Them Back? - YouTube

Channel: Brad Browning

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Hi.
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I’m Brad.
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Sometimes, people call me Breakup Brad… and most likely that’s because I’m the
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only person on earth willing to spend over a decade helping people get their ex back
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or get through a tough breakup.
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Thankfully for you, I actually do love doing that, and I’m happy to geek out on breakup
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psychology… and I’m happy to make videos like this one, where I’ll give you beautiful
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viewers some advice about sending your ex gifts or love notes.
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I plan on keeping this short.
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All I’m going to do is answer the following question….
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CAN SENDING YOUR EX GIFTS OR LOVE LETTERS
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HELP WIN THEM BACK?
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…..No.
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*quickly cut back to wide angle shot, and another brief awkward silence pause, then
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cut again quickly to another angle of Brad for the next sentence*
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Alright, and that does it for this video…..
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Don’t forget to subscribe and comment below.
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Thanks so much for watchin-....
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Alright alright, you want a more detailed answer?
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Fine.
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But honestly, folks, I actually could’ve just ended the video there, because that’s
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pretty much what I think about the idea of giving your ex a gift or sending them any
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kind of gushy, spill-your-guts love letter.
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Please do not send your ex any kind of gift, ever.
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I honestly cannot think of a single situation where this would be a good idea, and I’ve
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never recommended it to a client….
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It’s just never a good idea, not for Christmas, not for Valentines, birthdays, etc.
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Giving your ex any kind of gift when you want them back is basically saying, ā€œI’m so
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desperate for you to take me back, I’m even willing to try and buy your love backā€¦ā€
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Total, complete opposite of what you want to be projecting to your ex if you’re trying
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to get back together.
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You need to appear like you’re thriving, you’re happy without your ex, and you don’t
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give a shit about them anymore… that’s the only effective way to change their mind
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about breaking up and re-wire their feelings for you and the possibility of a future together.
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Love letters… just as bad as gifts.
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Maybe worse.
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Don’t show your emotions to your ex at all, because 99% of the time it’s going to make
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you look needy, desperate, and vulnerable.
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I actually realize that, unlike gifts, the idea of spilling your heart out to your ex
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can be appealing… you want to put it all out there, say what you feel and be done with
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it….
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But, as someone who has helped over 100,000 clients reverse their breakups….
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I can safely say this will not help you win back your ex.
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More than likely, it’ll hurt your chances.
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Now, there is one exception to this -- well, at least, sort of -- and that is my Clean
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Slate message template.
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I’ve made videos on this in the past, but basically this is a message you can send to
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your ex in certain situations where you’ve made past mistakes -- begging, pleading, apologizing
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over and over -- to undo that damage and help re-set your ex to an ā€œemotional neutralā€
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state.
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It’s only for specific situations, and is somewhat of a last-ditch move, but probably
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the majority of you watching won’t ever need to send the Clean Slate message at all.
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Sorry, I can’t get into details here, this is supposed to be a short video… but you
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really do need to properly set the stage and make sure you use the Clean Slate template
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100% correctly, or else it may backfire and make things worse… please visit BreakupBrad.com
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and watch my free video presentation to learn more, or register for my Ex Factor program
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right now and learn exactly how to safely and effectively use the Clean Slate message
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on your ex.
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ALRIGHT FOLKS, the final verdict on sending your ex gifts or letters IS….
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….exactly.
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Don’t do it.
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If you want your ex back, here’s a WAY better idea than sending gifts to your ex… go to
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BreakupBrad.com and watch my free video, subscribe to my channel here on YouTube, and leave your
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questions and feedback in the comments below.
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Thanks for watching, see you soon!