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04 Golden tips - How to give impactful compliments? ( Soft skills & Interpersonal Skills) - YouTube
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hello beautiful people welcome to
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skillopedia the place to learn skills
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for the real world
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do you like giving compliments or do you
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like receiving compliments i love
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receiving compliments and i'm sure you
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love receiving compliments too
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but
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it's an art to be able to complement
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another person and to make them smile
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from ear to ear
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in this session today with me michelle
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we are going to learn different ways of
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complementing somebody and also what are
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the golden rules of complementing
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you know complementing is so important
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because it changes the person who is
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receiving the compliment it affirms
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their personality and touches the very
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core of their heart because they are
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being encouraged to be a better person
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than they already are
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right
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so stay with me in this session and
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learn some wonderful ways of
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complementing your dear ones
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before you compliment someone it's
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really necessary that you find out about
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them what do they like what are their
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interests and what are their goals so
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that you can be very specific about the
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compliment
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yes
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this is the first golden rule of
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complimenting someone
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that you should be very specific but why
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really if you're not specific they will
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feel that you don't know anything about
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them and that your comment is fake your
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compliment is fake so to make your
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compliment really authentic it is
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necessary that you give a specific
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compliment let me give you an example in
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your workplace if any of your employee
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has done a really good job on a project
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you better not just say
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good work on that project it's much
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better if you tell that person your hard
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work really shined through and has made
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a great difference to our project and
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because of your effort our company has
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gained a great reputation
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how about a compliment in a personal
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relationship if you like someone's shirt
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don't just say that's a nice shirt it's
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much better to say that why does that
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shirt look nice on that person so you
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might rather want to say the color of
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that shirt
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really goes with the color of your eyes
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that's one way of complementing of being
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very specific so that the other person
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is really encouraged
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should we compliment the same person
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again and again
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that's fine but what if we compliment
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only one person do you think that's a
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good idea i don't think
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we should really avoid giving excessive
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compliments to only one person as if we
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are trying to gain some favors from them
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you may not think that way but there are
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so many people around you who might just
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think that way
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so to avoid that it's better that you do
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not give excessive compliments to one
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person you should evenly spread your
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compliments to the people around you who
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you think deserve the compliment please
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don't fake it be natural with your
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compliment be authentic if you feel that
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the person deserves a compliment then go
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ahead
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if you've been spotting that colleague
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of yours who's been constantly working
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on the projects and who is working
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before the deadlines
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then you must compliment that person and
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you should tell him that you've been
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working really hard on this and it shows
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so please make sure that you always
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evenly spread your compliments
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throughout your workplace and other
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people in your personal life
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the third golden rule that i have for
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you is
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point to a person's character
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what do we mean by character here
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character in the sense what kind of a
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person they are are they a calm person
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or are they a
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passionate person or is that person very
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courageous
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or maybe very kind
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this is what your compliment should
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point out
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so if an a person in your office
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is very courageous then your compliment
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should definitely point that out it
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should say that
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you've been very courageous about the
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recent project because none of us was
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actually ready to take it up we were all
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scared about the content of the project
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and we did not know if we could complete
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it
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so this is what you can say about a
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person who is very courageous
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what about a person who is very kind
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have you spotted anyone who's been
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helping other people complete their
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projects who's been helping many people
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across the office then yes you must
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compliment them you must tell them that
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yes you're very kind and you've been so
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helpful even to me that you've been able
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to help me complete this project that
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i'm doing
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what about other characteristics
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if someone is very
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generous that person also you can say is
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very kind
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so make sure your compliments point to
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the character of the person this is also
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one way of being very specific
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the final and the most important tip
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that i have for you is
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be authentic in your compliment
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you should not fake your compliment only
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say it when you feel it and when you
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feel that another person deserves it
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everybody has some good about them there
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is something good in them they are all
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gifted you need to find that gift in
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that person that one person who is least
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appreciated in your workplace look for
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that person and compliment them
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maybe they have a great sense of humor
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so you could tell that person you always
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make me laugh and that compliment will
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definitely make his day and then
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you will also feel very happy about it
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so make sure that your compliment is
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very authentic and that you do not fake
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it
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i hope all these golden rules will
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really help you complement the people in
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your workplace evenly and i also hope
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that you'll be very authentic with your
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compliment be natural smile and make
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others smile it's a great idea to spread
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happiness and complimenting is the best
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way to do that
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so my challenge to you is
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think of that person in your life whom
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you've not complimented for long think
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what do you like about them and what is
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their good quality i'm sure they have
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one and go out there and compliment that
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person i'm going to see you again with a
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new session next time and you please
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hello everyone welcome to skillopedia
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world
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my name is michelle and in this session
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i'm going to tell you
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seven ways to stay motivated when people
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put you down does it happen that you
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think of a new goal and you want to
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share it with your family members and
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your friends who are very close to you
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and when you share it with them you
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expected them to be so happy and excited
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for you as you are and however what you
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receive is discouragement and criticism
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of course you don't feel excited about
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it at those times there are ways to stay
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motivated and you're going to learn
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those with me in this session so stay
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tuned
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hi this is sima
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welcome back to skillopedia the place to
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learn skills for the real world
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i have a question for you
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how many of you fight
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i do
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how many of you love to win a fight
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i absolutely do
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well let me tell you something
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fighting is not a bad thing
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really did i just say that
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yes well fighting is not a very bad
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thing
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in fact it can also be considered
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healthy in any relationship it could be
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between friends it could be between your
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husband your spouse or it could be
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between a work colleague
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because fighting only shows that each of
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you have different
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viewpoints each of you have different
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opinions
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however
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when you are fighting you don't have the
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right to be immature
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you don't have the right to be
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judgmental and you don't have the right
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to be childish
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so today's session is going to deal with
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how
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you can learn to fight or argue
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in a very mature way because at the end
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of every fight
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or an argument your aim is to have a
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good resolution a good solution for
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whatever it is that you are fighting
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