You Took My Virginity, Let's Talk About It | Between The Sheets | Cut - YouTube

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- I made him wait six months.
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- It didn't go far from there.
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- No, it did not.
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- Six months of wait.
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I got maybe about, you know, I ain't gonna cap,
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about six, seven pumps in and you know
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- That's a stretch.
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(crew laughs)
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That's a stretch.
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(jazz music)
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- [Director] Hi.
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- [Both] Hello!
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- [Director] Who are you two?
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- I'm Van.
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- I'm Latayna.
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This is my partner.
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- I'm Jasmine.
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- My name's Darien.
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We've been together for four years.
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We met back in high school.
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- We know each other from college.
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- [Director] Are you two together right now?
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- [Both] No.
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Good friends, though. - Yeah.
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Still friends. - Hey!
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- [Director] We're here to talk about
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one specific moment where you two had sex.
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- Yeah! (guest laughs)
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When I lost my virginity.
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- To me.
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- That was my first time being with a woman.
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So, that feels very different
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than any other kind of sex that I've had prior.
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- She took my virginity.
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- I had no idea.
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I actually just learned about this today.
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- Tried to play like I knew what I was doing
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but no idea what I was doing.
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- Darien, that was your first time, right?
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- No, it was her first time.
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It wasn't mine.
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- [Director] You didn't lose your virginity to each other?
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(Darien laughs)
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- No, he was, he's been doing this young.
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- Who do you know that I slept with?
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- Oh, you slept with Imani, Nariah, the other Jasmine.
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You know what I'm talkin' about?
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Jasmine number two, the knock off.
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Come on, gimme a name. (fingers snapping)
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Help me out here.
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- I'm having amnesia.
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(Darien and director laughs)
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- I was completely oblivious to the fact
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that they had a crush on me.
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To be perfectly honest, I was like, they're hella cute.
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They probably have hella bitches.
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(both laugh)
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- We had been spending a lot of time together and
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- Like every day together.
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- Like a married couple time together.
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And that's kind of what led to us
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having sex for the first time.
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- I made him wait six months.
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A lot of guys were not that patient.
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- It was homecoming night actually.
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- [Director] Wait, hold on.
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You had sex on homecoming?
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(both laugh)
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- Yeah!
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It was actually very cliche.
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You know, big poofy dress, all that.
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- [Director] What do you remember?
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It was your first time.
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So you should remember a lot of it, right?
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- Well, that whole day was like, really interesting for us.
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I invited her to come kick it
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and we thought we were just gonna like
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actually just kick it.
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And then we started makin' out and then that kind of just
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- Escalated.
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- Escalated until we were in a bed together.
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- After homecoming, her sister had just picked us up
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and brought her back to her house.
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One thing led to another.
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- Yeah.
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It turned into the whole thing pretty fast.
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(Darien laughs)
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- We were like, you know, literally like, hanging out.
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- Yeah.
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And then, you know, we did some light foreplay.
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- If I'm being completely honest, I don't remember.
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(both laugh)
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I don't, I can't remember every detail
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but I remember things.
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- I copped the feel and I fingered.
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That is what I did.
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- That makes sense.
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'Cause those are, that is a good point.
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- Yeah.
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- I asked you, could I give you a kiss?
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- Mhm.
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- And I gave you a kiss and then we were makin' out.
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I asked if I could take her bra off.
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- Uh huh.
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- And then I was like, is it okay if I touch your breasts?
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She was like, fuck yeah, touch my boobs!
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(Latayna laughs)
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- What the fuck?
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Hell yeah!
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- You were like, do you wanna have sex?
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And I was like, this is a big boy's decision, Nathan.
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Like, what are you gonna do?
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Wracking all these thoughts in my mind.
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And I remember specifically my voice cracking
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and I was like, okay.
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(guest laughs)
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- Is that what?
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- I was trying to play it smooth and I was like, okay.
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(both laugh)
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- As like, Trey's about to like, go for it.
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His roommates come in and we're like, oh my fucking god.
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- My door's locked.
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So luckily, he doesn't like, come inside but
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- [Director] Why didn't you say, go away?
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- We had made the decision that
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people knowing that we were like, doing this
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wasn't the best idea.
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- But they did notice that my stuff was there.
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- They did.
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- So like, they knew I was there.
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- But my roommate's kinda stupid, so.
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(both laugh)
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- I think I put the condom on you.
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- Yeah, you put the condom on me.
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- Which now, it makes sense
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because you never needed to before.
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(guest laughs)
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I didn't think about it.
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I just thought it was like, a thing.
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- I gave her some, I'm gonna say, some amazing head.
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(Latayna laughs)
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I'm gonna say it was great head.
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- It was great head.
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- So after that she was like, can I do things to you?
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I was like, holy fuckin' shit.
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- I mean, I know the landmarks.
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- Yeah, exactly.
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(both laugh)
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- Anxiety was kinda high for me
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'cause I remember being nervous about a bunch of stuff.
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For one, I'm not circumcised.
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So I've got a lot of body shame towards that.
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How'd you feel when you figured out I wasn't circumcised?
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- I felt indifferent.
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I was not like, a penis expert at the time.
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(both laugh)
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- The whole time I'm thinking, oh wow.
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He really knows what he's doing.
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This is great.
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But apparently, he had no clue.
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Props to you for pulling that out your ass
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because shit, man.
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(hands clapping together)
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- We had sex for like, a long time.
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I thought like, men like, the whole thing was like,
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they like fast, right?
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- It didn't go far from there.
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- No, it did not.
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- Six months of wait.
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I got maybe 'bout six, seven pumps in and you know
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- That's a stretch.
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(crew laughs)
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That's a stretch.
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- We were going at it for kind of a long time.
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- It was a few hours.
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- It was a few hours.
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- I'm gonna say like, three painful strokes in.
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And he kinda started gettin' off of me and I was like,
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that's it?
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And he just laid down next to me and I was like, okay,
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you know, like this, that was my first time, so.
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- I think like, I wanted to be doing a good job.
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- Mhm.
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- But I was also like, in a little bit of pain
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but I was also having fun, you know?
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It was like, mixed emotions.
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- A lot of people were like, oh, it was so painful.
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My first time I was bleeding.
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I didn't really have that.
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It was just kind of like, a warm pressure.
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- [Director] Did both of you come?
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- Yes.
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- Yeah.
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- Just back and forth.
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Just like you come, I come, you come, I come, you come,
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I come. - No.
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I did not.
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He definitely got to come, though.
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As you guys know, those three pumps did a lot for him.
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- [Director] Did you both finish?
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- Yes.
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- So,
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(guest chuckles)
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I faked a nut and I don't know if that's actually possible
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but I faked it.
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You believed it.
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And so I was like, all right, cool.
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And not because it didn't feel good.
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I was just so in my head.
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- I didn't know guys could fake orgasms.
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- Yeah, so, I just, I clenched a lot and like I, yeah.
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(both laugh)
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- What's one thing you disliked about the experience?
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- It went too long.
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My vagina was so tired.
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I was like, there has to be an end in sight here.
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- Fair.
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Reasonable.
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- [Director] After you finished, was it just bedtime?
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- Gonna air it out.
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He lays down, right?
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He gets a notification from a girl and I open it
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and it's a booty pic.
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It's a full booty pic.
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I went outside and he ran straight to my sister.
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He was like, I messed up!
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I messed up so bad!
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I took a shower and she came into the bathroom
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and I just started crying in the shower
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and she started crying and I was naked.
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She was like, hug me.
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And she was like, are you okay?
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I was like, I'm okay.
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- I wouldn't have confidently let her been on my phone
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had I known I had booty pics on the way or somethin'.
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(all laugh)
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When that came through and she opened that,
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that really was just like a heart drop moment.
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- Your heart?
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I was like, that six months didn't mean nothin'!
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- I just remember at the end of it, you were like,
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you were the freakiest guy ever been with.
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And I was like,
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(both laugh)
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fa sho, bro.
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- It's true.
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- Not bad for someone inexperienced,
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you know what I'm sayin'?
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- Nah, had me fooled.
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- It was like, five hours.
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- Yeah.
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- The sun was rising, for sure.
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And we were just
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- I had to go to work.
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I was almost late for a meeting.
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- Yeah. (Latayna laughs)
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- Something you liked?
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- That it was with you!
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- Aw.
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Damn, with your corny ass. (guest laughs)
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- My favorite part about our first time being together
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was that you finally like, dropped like that, playboy swag.
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You finally understood that this was something like,
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that I was vulnerable about.
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And that meant a lot to me.
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- [Director] How do you feel about the phrase
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taking virginity?
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- I feel like it was more of a sharing
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as opposed to like, taking something.
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I had hetero sex for the first time from a place of like,
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everybody else is doing it.
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It was more of like, someone take my virginity.
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- Yeah.
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'Cause it seems like that's the thing.
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- Because I grew up Catholic,
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I had this like, feeling of like,
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oh, you can't, you can't, you can't, you can't.
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And then being able to be able to do that,
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I feel so much more liberated and free.
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(jazz music)