5 Women Entrepreneurs Share Their Secrets To Success | Refinery29 - YouTube

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Inspiration can come from any direction.
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But how do you take that new concept
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and make it a reality?
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In advance of the Inc. Women’s Summit,
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I’m meeting up with some of my favorite entrepreneurs
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to talk about what empowers them on a daily basis.
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You have all created businesses
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from out-of-the-box thinking.
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What made you veer left
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when everybody else was going right?
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Bobbi.
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When I moved to New York, it was the ‘80s.
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And everyone was doing the over made up contour look.
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I know it’s back.
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I still don’t like contour.
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So I would make up the models to make them
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look like they weren’t wearing makeup.
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And that was my calling card.
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But there was no makeup
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available that allowed you to do that.
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I met a chemist one day at a shoot
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and I said I can’t find a lipstick that didn’t smell,
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wasn’t greasy, and I wanted to match lips.
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Then I realized, “Wow.
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This is something.”
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For me,
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entrepreneurship, it wasn’t something that I aspired to.
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I always wanted to be an inventor.
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If I can be the perfect balance between
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Beyoncé and Bill Nye the Science Guy every single day

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Now we’re installing our technologies around
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different countries in emerging markets.
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Turning everything from floors and roads to
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baby strollers into energy-generating solutions.
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You guys both touched on this idea of
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identifying problems that existed in your life and looking
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at ways that you could shape an industry,
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rather than looking at the industry itself.
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I started a fashion technology company
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with my co-founder.
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We had no fashion or technology experience.
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We knew what it meant to buy a dress for $1,000,
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wear it once, and then be photographed on
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social media.
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And feel like you could never wear it again.
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So we were like, “Well, that doesn’t make sense.”
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Renting dresses made sense.
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If you thought too far down the road,
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it could be easy to find all the why not’s versus
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the how can you make this happen.
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I want to hear Angela’s story talking about
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how you are helping young entrepreneurs.
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So I started NewME,
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which is an accelerator for minorities in 2011.
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We focus only on the technology industry,
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which at the time, it was a young, technical,
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white guys’ club.
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I did not really start NewME as a business.
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It was a problem that I wanted to solve.
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And I thought it was going to be like a one-time project.
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What do you see is standing in between
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these women and the dollars that you know they need
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to succeed?
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When I work with men,
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they are not scared to ask for money
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even if what they’re working
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on is mediocre.
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But women can have something phenomenal
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but it’s like we hold ourselves back.
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So a lot of the work that I do in particular
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with women is confidence building,
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is getting them comfortable with asking for the money.
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Priya, I want to talk about the impact you
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are having on actual people:
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helping them create wealth in the way that they've
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never even thought of before.
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Historically, financial planning has been
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reserved for the wealthy.
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And when I was working on Wall Street,
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my clients were old and rich.
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And all of my friends at the same time were
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wondering where do we go for the answers.
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There’s this completely underserved kind of ignored
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demographic that we call Henrys,
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high earners not rich yet.
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I so often hear young women say,
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“I just want to be paid what I’m worth.”
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I don’t even know what that means.
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And I very rarely hear young women say,
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“I want to make a lot of money.”
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Right? It’s as if we all sort of internalize
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this idea that the budget’s not there.
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Research show that men are four times more likely
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than women to ask.
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So at Stash Wealth, salary negotiations come up.
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Set it as a goal though and it has
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to be a very concrete goal.
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Like I want to buy a $250,000 house
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in three years so I want to get a raise
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and let’s back into what you need to do today
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to be on track.
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The flipside that millennials have to be very careful of is
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entitlement.
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For example, one kid said,
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“I feel like I really need to make x.”
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I’m like, “Oh, that’s interesting.
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For this job, if you do all of this research,
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this is the highest you could get paid.”
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And he’s like,
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“Yeah, I didn’t really think about what the job was.
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I just kind of thought New York.”
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What are you saying to me?
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I don’t think women talk about comp
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and salaries in the same way men do.
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Women I advise, some of the most valuable
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help I give them is actually talking in a
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real way about what you should be making.
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But getting the data out there—
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that’s hard especially amongst women because they’re
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fewer women who are in leadership roles.
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I find younger women are much more transparent
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with their salary.
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For them it’s not TMI, it’s cocktail talk.
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And I think that that lifting the veil
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—is going to get us closer to equality. –I think that’s really important.
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In “The Big Life,” I have an entire chapter
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devoted to the side hustle secret to success.
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How do you know when it’s time to make your
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side hustle your main hustle?
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I fully believe in the side hustle and
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in fact, when I worked in finance,
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because I was not passionate about finance,
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I would spend whatever time I had doing college essay
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editing, which I kind of made all the business around.
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But ultimately went to business school and
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co-founded Rent the Runway in business school.
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So I was kind of side hustling it.
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I was taking classes but I’m
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a pretty risk averse entrepreneur so the whole way,
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I had a timeline of milestones we had to meet.
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And I think it was helpful for me and my co-founder,
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kept us honest.
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Ultimately one of those milestones was raising money.
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And for me, raising money was another way
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of checking myself on.
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Was this a good concept that VC’s
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would put their name behind?
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So I very much believe that parallel processing,
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kind of always having a little bit of a safety net,
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and just being honest with yourself
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if something’s not working.
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And forcing that brutal honesty, it’s hard.
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You need to be able to sell something
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or it’s not a business.
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Don’t quit your job.
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Don’t do anything until you figure that out.
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And then even after you figure that out,
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you got to do a deeper dive into the customer
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and try to find more customers like the ones
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who gave you a dollar.
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When I’m talking to young women,
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they will ask me,
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“How do you get ahead in a male-dominated industry
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if you’re a woman?”
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The advice I always give
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is to forget you’re a woman, right?
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You are a person with a good idea.
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Just say it.
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That was exactly the advice that I gave myself
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was just to remember that you’re there like
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any other employee
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and to speak up when you have a great idea.
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I did get called in once.
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My boss told me that my attitude with
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my colleagues was abrasive.
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And I wasn’t sure if it was because
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I was a female.
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I’ve been in rooms with investors who are
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supposed to be investing in women and people
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of color and have the investor say,
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“So who’s the tech lead on this?”
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I’m like, “It’s me.”
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“Well, who came up with this?”
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I’m like, “Ask me a question first
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and see if I don’t have the answer.”
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And then all of a sudden they’re just like,
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“So did your father help you
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“Did my father, what?”
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I actually disagree that you should forget
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that you’re a woman.
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Every single day I get up being like,
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“Jessica, you are a black woman.
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You’re going to have to do three times as much
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to get half as far.”
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Is anyone besides me been called difficult?
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Oh yeah.
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I love it though.
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Me too. It’s a compliment.
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When I was younger, I didn’t like it.
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Maybe I should not say stuff back as much.
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But the older I got, I’m like
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I kind of like that about me.
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We all know that we can’t just be like
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one of the boys that—but the good news is that
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we have our special perspective.
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You embrace the difference, right?
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I don’t think a man could have started Rent the Runway.
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There’s this old idea
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that women are in competition with each other.
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That there’s backstabbing.
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That there’s only room at the table for one woman.
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But I’ve been so inspired by how
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millennial women have replaced competition
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with collaboration.
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Being someone who has been in the industry
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for a long time, when I was first starting
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my company especially with other makeup artists,
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you would never give any advice.
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Never would they ever tell you
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—because everyone was a—right. —I was about to say.
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Everyone was in competition.
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And now as I’m reinventing myself and
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need some different things, they’re here.
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Call this person. Do this.
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This is where you get this.
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It’s an amazing change.
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It is.
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This year I turned 60 and I started a new lifestyle brand.
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There’s more and more opportunity.
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And there’s a million things you’re going
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to end up doing.
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On your own terms.
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On your own terms.
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Be the entrepreneur of your life.