Mom Who Gives Son $1,000 Monthly Allowance Says He Needs ‘A Real Big Reality Check’ - YouTube

Channel: Dr. Phil

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the problem that I'm having with my son
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Ronald is I give him $1,000 allowance a
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month and he wants a extra 1,500 to
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support his luxury and designer clothes
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I am going to get it I'm going to get it
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he loves the compliments that he gets on
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his clothes he just like always been
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obsessed with designer things he always
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think in his mind and he's the
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celebrities like oh I can get that and I
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could get all the attention
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Rondo's dream is to be a youtuber
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because he thinks the YouTube and is
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everything how are you gonna make it by
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posting videos you get paid from from
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YouTube for making videos you can make
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all this money and buy you know fashion
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clothes and cars
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Ronald's closet is way bigger than mine
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you can tell that he's very spoiled I
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have like a little small classic it's a
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larger walk-in closet something that's
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not designer he'll throw their trash
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Ronald thinks that I made of a money
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tree that I could just shake in the yard
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and it comes in my hand and oh I just
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hand it to him
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I work about 120 hours a week to support
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my household
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if I tell Ron old dad I'm not giving him
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extra money he shuts down gets an
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attitude stomps up the steps slams the
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door I'm gonna get everything my loan
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was raised my car he's just not getting
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Ronald's not thinking about college his
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mindset is just youtubing and making
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millions
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Ronald needs a real big reality check
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and I don't get my 1500 you probably
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won't see me anymore
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you've been watching this from backstage
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right conversation we've been having yes
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what's it sound like to you
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it sounds rural saying like Ronald
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Willie needs to wake up and know King
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King I'm the king he really needs to
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wake up and be more independent four is
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heaven a
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job or to mugwort heaven all these
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things that he wants I just feel like he
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needs to further his education for his
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going to college or I'm not going to a
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trade school you are going to do
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something you are I'm not I'm gonna do
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you two do you have a youtube channel
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yeah I do that you you oh you created
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that in January
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mhm and it's now the fall how many
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videos have you posted on your channel
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so far this year I was the one video and
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then I deleted it so in the entire year
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you put up one video to get down yeah
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dr. Phil he feel as though they he's
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like the king of the world I am
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everything arrives around him they
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watching me this is myself if I cook
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dinner with my so out there is my total
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he feel as though if I cook dinner that
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he supposed to get the first plate of
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the house if we go out somewhere
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traveling he has to be in the front seat
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it's just like everything is all about
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Ryan I think I know what's wrong with
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him
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my question is what's wrong with you
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so you have a job as a parent yes okay
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and to me the job of a parent is to
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prepare a child for the next level of
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life and to live independently I tried
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to push him to get a job I helped him
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the only minute wait a minute are you
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preparing him for the next level of life
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no you're giving him something for
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nothing
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our is that how the world works no does
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the world work where he just comes in to
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an employer and says I'm the King and I
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want the top salary here at the company
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and they go oh okay oh great that's not
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how the world works but that's what
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you're teaching him