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'It鈥檚 Time For Complete Transparency,' Dr. Phil Tells Guest - YouTube
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you brought us pictures of Oh 7/16 a
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report from a teen we have a report for
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a man that was prepared to give you a
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home and you're now living with your
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grandmother yes and you brought us
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pictures of your living environment now
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how you live now I would like to take a
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look at those because your current
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living conditions are very normal right
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I mean you have a clean room you have
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some young girl clutter around I'm going
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next week that's why to the Container
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wherever you go it looks organized and
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it looks clean it looks like anybody's
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house right yes so it's not that you're
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incapable of knowing what's right and
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knowing what's clean how does that look
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to you like my grandma's house yes clean
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okay compared to the pictures that we
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had it before which is a contrast to
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what your siblings are living in what
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you say your siblings are living in
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which is a very different situation come
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on and you're telling me that when this
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crew walks up to your door this
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afternoon they're not going to see any
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of this no no yeah because let me tell
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you it's it's time for complete
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transparency absolutely you cannot you
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cannot have a situation
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bad enough toxic enough pathological
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enough that I won't bring you resources
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to help you with it so I'm not here to
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judge you I'm here to help you thank you
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I mean if if if your house
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looks like those pictures times two then
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you know what I'll do I'll get a
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professional cleaning crew and I'll come
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through and sterilize that home for you
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if that carpet is urine soaked or
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stained or whatever I'll have it ripped
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out and I'll put new carpet in there for
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you I'll paint that house for I will
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clean that house up I'll do whatever is
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necessary to provide those children a
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clean home or or I'm gonna do everything
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I can to take them out of it one of the
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two and then we have to decide what is
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going on that makes this okay with you
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for it to get there not that you would
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aspire to it but you don't have any
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insight here insight is very very
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important because without it you just
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can't change what you don't acknowledge
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you have to have insight that is the key
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building block to any kind of
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therapeutic intervention and when I say
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insight I mean the ability to see and
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understand why you do the things you do
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the ability to see oneself without
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Distortion
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so you can't look through glasses that
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distort who you are you can't see things
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through a filter that allow you to lie
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to yourself and so we have to do one or
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two things and dr. Sophy you're the one
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that that executes on this all the time
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so correct me if I'm wrong we either
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have to intervene and protect these
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children not just from a toxic
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environment but from a toxic parent
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correct or we have to put a plan in
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place
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right to ensure that these children are
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living in a safe nurturing environment
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correct where they're getting the things
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that they need mentally emotionally
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physically medically educationally
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attritional II every other way I mean
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there's like ten dimensions it that we
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have to cover and you're going to do
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that with us because you accept our help
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or we've got to at least temporarily get
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those children out of there where
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they're at least in an environment like
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she's living in right now it's got to be
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one or the other
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