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Man Says Mother-In-Law ‘Thinks She Has A Say In Our Marriage’ - YouTube
Channel: Dr. Phil
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my mother-in-law is neurotic insecure
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and detached Susan I had a broken
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relationship she shows no interest in
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repairing it all she seems to be
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concerned about is seeing her
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grandchildren after I married Becca it
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became obvious to me that Susan's best
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friend was her daughter my wife I was
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getting in the way of that susan has
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been training everyone in her family to
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enable her bad behavior if anyone goes
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against Susan's wishes Susan's wrath is
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unleashed upon the planet I'm done with
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it I'm tired of the drama her nose is
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always in our business she's always up
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in Becca's life when Susan comes into
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our home
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she'll rearrange the cabinet Susan
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thinks that she has a say in our
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marriage and she does not it's not her
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marriage you cannot speak to her about
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anything without her blowing up about it
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I've never been argumentative with Susan
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I have stated what I needed to get
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across in a very clear manner but I've
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never been met with the same level of
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respect everything is extreme everything
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is bull Jill Twiggy every time there's
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been a blow-up it's just the start of a
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vicious cycle
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everything gets swept under the rug and
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nothing is being fixed when Susan
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implied that I may have been abusive to
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my son that infuriated me I'm not going
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to take those kind of accusations from
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anyone doesn't matter if it's my wife's
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mother or not
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okay David I'm glad you're here you've
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been listening so far yes Sarah
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are you upset with her and withholding
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the grandkids from her because you're
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mad that she accused you of being
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abusive with your son or because you
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really think she's a risk to your
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children those kids are my
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responsibility to raise properly so that
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they can learn how they should go and be
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in the world and I can't have people who
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exhibit poor behavior around my children
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and the poor behavior that you refer to
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that's just offensive to your
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sensibilities and unacceptable to your
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standards would be what reacting with
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anger when someone goes against your
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wishes or ignoring one's position in the
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household as my position as the father
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uh-huh and and you two have decided that
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she has a personality disorder yes yes
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and I've got one two three four five
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pages of characteristics anger and
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baiting and circular conversations
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disassociation emotional blackmail
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favoritism and scapegoating harassment
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identity disturbance lack of
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consciousness manipulation mood swings
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raging violence and impulsivity sabotage
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self victimisation sense of entitlement
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threat I mean it just goes on and on
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pages and pages of pages here we did do
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a lot of research of course Google is
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always there and I just typed in what is
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it when someone blames someone else for
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the things that they're actually always
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doing well if it's on Google I
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understand and and I've said I'm no
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psychologist or not and the reason that
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I bring this up and if you're really
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interested in information is there's a
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tendency for those who mix psychology
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and religion
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who know just enough to be dangerous to
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use psychology as a weapon to judge you
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guys decided that she was a history onic
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personality right yes sir
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I mean we didn't say that was set in
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stone it was just right that's what
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we've read Malin oh but you submitted
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about 14 pages of support for that
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diagnosis and I can tell you that
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wouldn't even be on my short list if I
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was diagnosing her but I'm not because I
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I'm not qualified to diagnose her I
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haven't done the proper work nor have
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you that doesn't mean she doesn't have
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flaws of character of certainly I just
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seems awfully judgmental I don't know
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